Everything You Need to Know About Elopement Weddings (And Why You Should Plan One)
Elopement weddings have quietly transformed from a secret escape to a sophisticated and intentional way for couples to celebrate their love. For many, the idea of a large, traditional wedding with hundreds of guests, endless planning, and high expectations simply doesn’t reflect who they are or how they want to start their marriage. Elopement weddings offer something different. Something more personal. More meaningful. And in a place like the Lake District, more beautiful than you ever imagined.
Already decided on your elopement wedding? Our stunning Lake District wedding venue is the perfect place for your special day. Book a showround today to explore the spaces, learn more about our 'You & Me' elopement wedding package, and discover how The Ro can be part of your love story.
What Is an Elopement Wedding Today?
Modern elopement weddings are not about secrecy or rebellion. They are about choice. They are for couples who want to focus on what matters most-each other.
Instead of throwing a party with your nearest and dearest, elopement weddings focus on intimacy, simplicity, and intention. It might mean just the two of you on a quiet lakeshore, or a small group of your closest loved ones witnessing your vows in a private ceremony.
It is not about what you leave out. It is about what you choose to include.
Why Choose an Elopement Wedding
Many couples are drawn to elopement weddings because they create space for authenticity. You are not bound by tradition or pressure. You are free to shape a day that is completely yours.
Less stress and lower cost - planning a large wedding can feel like a full-time job. There are venues to book, guest lists to manage, and countless details that add up in time and money. An elopement allows you to skip the stress and focus on what matters.
More personal and meaningful - Without distractions or a long itinerary, you can focus entirely on the moment. The words. The look in each other's eyes. Every detail feels more powerful because it’s been chosen with care.
Freedom to choose your dream location - whether it’s a quiet woodland path, a dramatic mountain view, or the shores of Lake Windermere, elopement weddings give you complete freedom in where and how you say your vows.
Ideal for couples who prefer privacy - not everyone dreams of being the centre of attention. If a big audience and family politics make you uncomfortable, eloping offers a gentle, meaningful alternative.
Why the Lake District is the Perfect Place to Elope
For couples considering elopement weddings in the UK, the Lake District offers a rare mix of romance, natural beauty, and timeless charm. From sweeping views of the fells to peaceful lakeside walks, this national park is filled with opportunities for meaningful moments.
Lake Windermere, the largest lake in England, is a particularly enchanting setting. Whether you picture exchanging vows on a private terrace or capturing your first kiss as newlyweds with the water behind you, the Lake District delivers unforgettable backdrops in every season.
Add to this the area’s calm pace, pretty villages, and warm welcomes, it becomes clear why more couples are choosing Lake District elopement weddings over city venues or faraway destinations.
Why Choose Us?
Set above the shores of Lake Windermere, The Ro Hotel blends heritage and elegance with a contemporary sense of calm. It is relaxed, stylish, and beautifully located, an ideal base for a Lake District elopement.
With the 'You & Me' elopement package, The Ro offers couples everything they need for an intimate and unforgettable celebration. This package includes exclusive ceremony spaces, support with suppliers, and beautiful suites for your stay. It’s designed to remove the pressure and replace it with ease, privacy, and warmth.
And planning is simple. When you book a showround at The Ro, our dedicated team will guide you through everything, from choosing your ceremony spot to recommending trusted celebrants, photographers, and florists. If you need permits for a lakeside photo session or want a private boat for post-ceremony champagne, we can help arrange it all.
How to Plan Your Elopement Wedding
Start by deciding what matters most to you. Is it the location, the photos, the vows, or just the feeling of being somewhere peaceful together?
Next, choose a venue that reflects your values and your style. Elopement packages in the Lake District vary widely, so look for one that offers not just the setting, but the service and support to make your day run smoothly.
Arrange your celebrant and photographer early. Many couples choose to work with a celebrant who can create a personalised ceremony that reflects their relationship and vision. A professional photographer will ensure the beauty and intimacy of your day is captured in a way you’ll always treasure.
Don’t forget the little things. Think about music, flowers, and any personal touches you want to include. And most importantly, give yourself permission to do things your own way. This day is about the two of you, no one else.
Begin Your Journey with The Ro Hotel
If an elopement wedding sounds like the right fit, the Lake District- and The Ro Hotel- offers a setting that is as meaningful as it is beautiful. Whether you are planning months ahead or looking for a last-minute escape, our team is here to help bring your vision to life.
Your perfect day does not have to be complicated. It just has to be yours.
To begin planning your Lake District elopement, contact us and let us help you create a day you will remember for the rest of your life.